"Sex and Other Sacred Games explores that territory where Lesbian Desire
tends to come most violently undone; in the heart and bowels of a love
relationship. Essentially, the book is an extended conversation between two
women on the subject of sex. In the course of the conversation, which is
laced with echoes of Platonic dialogue, the women fall in love. What makes
this dialogue both highly charged and evocative of a whole chapter of
feminist history is that one of the women, Alma Runau, is a Lesbian Feminist
and the other, Claire Heller, is a self-declared (heterosexual) femme fatale."
Trivia: A Journal of Ideas, 1991
"In Sex and Other Sacred Games, Kim Chernin and Renate Stendhal each take on
a fictional character, Claire Heller an American, and Alma Runau a European,
to write a book about two women who meet, separate, correspond, and meet
again in an on-going, unresolved conversation about sexual roles, an attempt
to redefine female sexuality. A play on Plato's dialogues, their discourse
takes place on many levels, moving among mythological, psychoanalytic, and
feminist points of view. Writing alternating chapters, they attempt to
bridge the geographic space and the cultural difference of their characters
by allowing the censored thoughts to emerge."
Resurgent: New Writing by Women
"The book is set in Paris, the south of France and Berkeley. The heroines
are a German and an American writer, two vagabonds who are unwilling to
accept any of the roles offered by society or to adapt to the rules of their
time. They meet in a Paris cafe, in a race for the only remaining table that
offers enough room to write. In order to defend this table, that is meant
for four, but is suitable for a single person who wants to be alone in the
crowd with her writing utensils, the two rivals unite as consumers and
communicators, as expected in a cafe house culture . . .
"Through the diaries and letters [eventually exchanged by] the two women a
cultural history of female sexuality is being shaped, while at the same time
female sexuality is said not to exist. By evoking the space women have
always claimed in Patriarchy, Claire Heller can demonstrate an exciting, rich
and continuous female tradition. Alma Runau rejects this sort of women's
history as not inherently female... Alma Runau, a feminist artist, at the
end of the 20th century is a woman without history; she has grown up in
Germany, fled to Paris . . . and distanced herself, with German thoroughness,
from Patriarchy. Now she meets Claire Heller with her painted face and red
finger nails, two and a half years later receives Claire's package of letters
and soon afterwards finds Claire in the South of France at her doorstep
without makeup, short haired, looking like a pretty boyan adventurer who
hides her true being behind costumes and masks, a story-teller, who sets
unsolvable riddles. It becomes clear that Claire's...sexual power, is not
pleasure in sensuality, nor in her own experience, but is joy in the
execution of power. 'If women are so afraid of men's power, what the hell
could a woman learn about sex by going to bed with a woman,' asks Claire?
For the ardent feminist Alma, however, any kind of aggression and exercise of
power is condemnable. The confrontations in this book are so palpable,
clear, so exciting, annoying and creative that one wishes for an immediate
translation into German in order to start an urgently needed discussion."
Liesebuch, April 1991
"A superb dissection of current feminism.
"Chernin and Stendhal have crafted a wonderful, dualistic examination of the
current trends of feminism in this novel. Each author wrote the chapters
that are from her character's point of view, offering conflicting and
interwoven styles of globa feminist thought. Using tools such as mythic
references and dream sequences, dialogue and letter formats, and clashes
between cultures, Chernin and Stendhal work through the often disparate and
incompatible notions of feminism that exist throughout the world. A
must-read for anyone searching for a new definition of feminist mores."
A Reader, Amazon.com
"Evocative...As different as Alma and Claire are...both face the ways they
sexually trap themselves, lose their way, repeat patterns, burn out. And
both are ready for the next step, a new sacred game . . . (I)t is refreshing to
find a book devoted entirely to a friendship (and more) between women"
The Women's Review of Books
"This collaboration demonstrates that communication between women of diverse
sexual preferences, practices, and politics may lead to great mutual
understanding and empowerment."
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